How many times have you got upset because someone wasn't doing his job，because your child

How many times have you got upset because someone wasn't doing his job，because your child isn't behaving？How many times have you been irritated (恼怒的) when you've planned something carefully and things didn't go as you'd hoped?
This kind of anger and irritation happens to all of us—it’s part of the human experiences.
One thing that irritates me is when people talk during a movie，or cut me off in traffic. Actually, I have a lot of these little annoyances—don't we all？And it isn’t always easy to find peace when you’ve become upset or irritated.
Let me tell you a little secret to finding peace of mind: see the glass as already broken .
See, the cause of our stress, anger and irritation is that things don't go the way we like, the way we expect them to. Think of how many times this has been true for you. And so the solution is simple：expect things to go wrong, expect things to be different than we hoped or planned，expect the unexpected to happen. And accept it.
One quick example: on our recent trip to Japan, I told my kids to expect things to go wrong—they always do on a trip. I told them, “See it as part of the adventure.”
And this worked like a charm. When we inevitably(不可避免地) took the wrong train on a foreign­language subway system, or when it rained on the day we went to Disney Sea, or when we took three trains and walked 10 blocks only to find the National Children's Castle closed on Mondays...they said, “It's part of the adventure！” And it was all OK—we didn't get too bothered.
So when the nice glass you bought inevitably falls and breaks some day, you might get upset. But things will be different, if you see the glass as already broken, from the day you get it. You know it'll break some day, so from the beginning, see it as already broken. Be a time­traveler, or someone with time­traveling vision, and see the future of this glass, from this moment until it inevitably breaks. And when it breaks, you won't be upset or sad—because it was already broken, from the day you got it. And you’ll realize that every moment you have with it is precious.
【小题1】The author’s children could enjoy their trip to Japan because .A．everything went smoothlyB．they had a lot of adventuresC．they had expected things to go wrongD．they could soon get used to the customs there【小题2】The author would probably agree that .A．we should control our anger and irritationB．we must get well prepared for the futureC．optimism can help us overcome our anger and irritationD．anger and irritation is a natural part of our life【小题3】The purpose of the author is to .A．tell us his own experience in lifeB．advise us how to find peace of mindC．tell us a happy trip he took with his childrenD．ask us to see things from both sides【小题4】By the underlined part (in Para.3), the author tells us to .A．get ready for the worst result of thingsB．enjoy the process of thingsC．expect little from lifeD．find the relationship between cause and effect【小题5】We can learn from the passage that the author .A．often gets angry in his lifeB．can adjust his state of mind accordinglyC．always expects others to act in his wayD．always suffers from his anger and irritationC

(答案→)C 解析：本文中作者告诉我们的对待任何事情，我们都要做最坏的打算，只有这样我们才可以找到内心真正的安宁。【小题1】C 推理题。根据expect things to go wrong, expect things to be different than we hoped or planned，expect the unexpected to happen. And accept it. 和One quick example: on our recent trip to Japan, I told my kids to expect things to go wrong—they always do on a trip. I told them, “See it as part of the adventure.”可知在旅行中，我的孩子按照我的建议，先把事情想得最糟糕。然后就可以享受整个旅行了。故C正确。【小题2】D 细节题。根据文章第二段This kind of anger and irritation happens to all of us—it’s part of the human experiences.可知作者认为生气和愤怒都是我们生活的一部分。故D正确。【小题3】B 主旨大意题。根据文章23,4段Actually, I have a lot of these little annoyances—don't we all？And it isn’t always easy to find peace when you’ve become upset or irritated. Let me tell you a little secret to finding peace of mind: see the glass as already broken .可知在本文中作者主要告诉我们的是如何在生活中寻找到内心的安静和安宁，就是要做最坏的打算。故B正确。【小题4】A 推理题。根据本句Let me tell you a little secret to finding peace of mind: see the glass as already broken .可知作者建议我们把杯子看成是已经破了的东西，这样即使杯子真得破了，我们也有心理准备了。也就是说要做最坏的打算。故A正确。【小题5】B 推理题。根据文章最后3段所述可知作者能够根据不同的情况来调整自己的情绪和行为，故B正确。

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