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There is a problem each of us will face: Apologizing is difficult. We are trapped in what we think of ourselves by holding onto our pride. We can be selfish and not willing to admit our most obvious mistakes. Pride eats away at us as we argue or ignore the mistake. Guilt traps us in its cage of lies and pride as we defend our self-centered minds. It has happened to me. I have had too much pride and selfishness to apologize to a loved one I had hurt. When I did want to apologize, I couldn’t bring myself to face the other person. This is the pride I’m talking about. Maybe apologies come difficult for men because they’re expected to be dominant(占优势的). It’s like the joke that a man never asks for directions when lost. Ladies are more emotionally open than men and are willing to express their emotion. Still, both genders wonder how to apologize correctly. How does not apologizing affect other people? They feel hurt and believe that you are not willing to communicate your mistake. They lose trust in you as you hide behind your mistake and avoid reality. They become angry with you, wondering why you will not tell them the truth. They may begin to counter your lack of apologies by not apologizing themselves and then the relationship goes downhill as the two of you get caught in a power struggle. You need to communicate your mistakes. A mistake you made is like a scratch(划痕) and by not apologizing you are making the scratch a deeper wound and rubbing salt into it. You need to stop hurting the other person and yourself by learning to apologize. There is real power in apologizing and emotional healing. People find it hard to apologize for their mistakes due to ________. A. emotional healing B. their pride C. making arguments D. being trapped in lies Why are men more unwilling to make apologies? A. They don’t intend to hurt other people. B. They are too shy. C. They don’t want to be considered as weak. D. They think it is not necessary to apologize. The underlined word “counter” probably means _________. A. object to B. focus on C. depend on D. benefit from What bad effect does it have if you refuse to apologize for your mistakes? A. You won’t be focused on by other people. B. All people won’t believe in you in turn. C. You won’t be forgiven even if you tell the truth. D. The friendship will be hurt and trust will be lost.

【小题1】B 【小题2】C 【小题3】A 【小题4】D 解析: 略

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