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阅读理解 If you want to teach your children how to say sorry, you must be good at saying it yourself, especially to your own children. But how you say it can be quite tricky. If you say to your children “I’m sorry I got angry with you, but …” what follows that “but” can render the apology ineffective: “I had a bad day” or “your noise was giving me a headache ” leaves the person who has been injured feeling that he should be apologizing for his bad behavior in expecting an apology. Another method by which people appear to apologize without actually doing so is to say “I’m sorry you’re upset”; this suggests that you are somehow at fault for allowing yourself to get upset by what the other person has done. Then there is the general, all covering apology, which avoids the necessity of identifying a specific act that was particularly hurtful or insulting, and which the person who is apologizing should promise never to do again. Saying “I’m useless as a parent” does not commit a person to any specific improvement. These pseudo-apologies are used by people who believe saying sorry shows weakness. Parents who wish to teach their children to apologize should see it as a sign of strength, and therefore not resort to these pseudo-apologies. But even when presented with examples of genuine contrition, children still need help to become aware of the complexities of saying sorry. A three-year-old might need help in understanding that other children feel pain just as he does, and that hitting a playmate over the head with a heavy toy requires an apology. A six-year-old might need reminding that spoiling other children’s expectations can require an apology. A 12-year-old might need to be shown that raiding the biscuit tin without asking permission is acceptable, but that borrowing a parent’s clothes without permission is not.1.According to the author, saying “I’m sorry you’re upset” most probably means “_______”.A.You have good reason to get upsetB.I’m aware you’re upset, but I’m not to blameC.I apologize for hurting your feelingsD.I’m at fault for making you upset2.We learn from the last paragraph that in teaching children to say sorry _______.A.the complexities involved should be ignoredB.their ages should be taken into accountC.parents need to set them a good exampleD.parents should be patient and tolerant3.It can be inferred from the passage that apologizing properly is _______.A.a social issue calling for immediate attentionB.not necessary among family membersC.a sign of social progressD.not as simple as it seems

BBD解析文章从道歉的各个层面分析一个合适的道歉并非如想象的那么简单，此外，教孩子道歉也是要考虑不同年龄段的孩子的心智发展的。1.细节理解题 根据第三段中“this suggests that you are somehow at fault for allowing yourself to get upset by what the other person has done.”可知，我已经意识到别人给你带来的沮丧。2.细节理解题 根据文章的最后一段可知不同年龄段的孩子在理解道歉的意义层面是不同的，因此在教孩子道歉的时候一定要考虑孩子的年龄。3.推理判断题 根据文章的大意可知道歉看似简单，但是合适的道歉做起来就不是那么的简单了，必须要考虑其它的东西。

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