The clothes you wear. The food you eat. The color of your bedroom walls. Where you go and

The clothes you wear. The food you eat. The color of your bedroom walls. Where you go and how you get there. The people you hang around with. What time you go to bed. What do these things have in common? You’re asking. They’re just a few examples of many hundreds of things that your parents controlled for you when you were a child.
As a kid, you didn’t have a say in everything; your parents made decisions about everything from the cereal you ate in the morning to the pajamas you wore at night. And it’s a good thing, too—kids need this kind of protection on their own.
But finally, kids grow up and become teens. And part of being a teen is developing your own identity—one that is separate from your parents’. But as you change and grow into this new person who makes his own decisions, your parents have a difficult time adjusting (调整).
In most families, it is this adjustment that can cause a lot of fighting between teens and parents. And issues like the type of friends you have or your attitudes to partying can cause bigger arguments, because your parents still always want to protect you and keep you safe, no matter how old you are.
The good news about fighting with your parents get more comfortable with the idea that their teens have a right to certain opinions. It can take several years for parents and teens to adjust to their new roles, though. In the meantime, focus on communicating with your parents.
Sometimes this can feel impossible—like they just don’t see your point of view and never will. But talking and expressing your opinions can help you gain more respect from your parents.
Keep in mind, too, that your parents were teens once and that in most cases, they can relate to what you’re going through.
【小题1】In the first two paragraphs, the writer .A．complains that parents control kids too much B．proves that kids have no right to give their opinions C．describes how carefully parents look after kids D．explains that it is necessary for parents to control kids【小题2】A lot of fighting breaks out between teens and parents because .A．parents aren’t used to losing control of kids B．teens like to have everything decided C．parents blame teens for not respecting them D．teens are eager to develop their own identity【小题3】In the writer’s opinion, parents control teens in order to .A．prevent them from having their own ideas B．protect them from being hurt C．make them respect parents in the family D．make sure that children have a good future【小题4】The underlined word “this” in paragraph 6 may refer to “ ”.A．arguing with friendsB．fighting with your parents C．communicating with parentsD．adjusting to new roles【小题5】What might be the most suitable title for the passage?A．What do parents control their children for?B．How parents take care of children?C．How to get rid of your parents’ control?D．Why do I fight with parents so much?D

(答案→)D 解析：本文叙述了父母一直控制着孩子的一切来保护孩子。但是当孩子长成青少年时，他们有了自己做决定的能力，父母很难调整他们对孩子的对待方式。所以就产生了许多争吵，因此孩子要和父母多交流。【小题1】细节理解题。根据第一段所说的那些问题和第二段最后一句“And it’s a good thing, too—kids need this kind of protection on their own.”孩子需要这种保护，可知前两段作者是在解释父母控制孩子是必要的。故选D。【小题2】细节理解题。根据上文父母一直控制孩子的一切，而当孩子长成十几岁的青少年要为自己做决定时，父母很难适应这种变化。可知青少年和父母的争吵，是因为父母无法习惯失去对孩子的控制。故选A。【小题3】细节理解题。根据第四段“your parents still always want to protect you and keep you safe, no matter how old you are.”可知作者的观点认为，父母控制青少年是为了保护他们免受伤害。故答案选B。【小题4】细节理解题。根据上一段最后一句“focus on communicating with your parents.”可知“this”指的是和父母的沟通。故选C。【小题5】标题归纳题。根据文章大意的分析可知，做合适的标题是“我们为什么和父母争吵这么多”故选D。

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