男朋友的父母的总是让我认为基本的礼仪不懂，我该怎么想，是他们看不上我，还是他们家庭文化就那样？

初九初次拜访了男朋友的父母，今天看到了男朋友的父母开车来接男朋友去他爸爸朋友家吃饭，他的妈妈坐在车里居然都没有摇下车玻璃跟我说句话！我是不是应该很生气，这是不是意味着什么，回到家里跟我的父母说，我的父母也给我泼冷水，认为他的父母对我不是很喜欢，我真是纠结啊！！！觉得一旦涉及到了双方父母，礼节、态度等都会惹出很多棘手的问题，最终可能会伤害我和男友的感情。。。哎。。。

你说的这个应该是你和男方的家庭差距挺大吧。简单说就是他家挺有钱的。我也不是说你是看上他的钱才跟他交往的。我只是想提醒你。他家人这个反映应该是挺看不上你的。如果你真的爱你男朋友你男朋友也爱你那就不用太在乎他家人的看法。要是感情一般般建议你就别和他处了要不以后真结婚了个他家人生活在一起你会更痛苦。当然这只是我个人观点。祝你幸福

婆媳关系是最不好弄的，不过如果你想想一家人开开心心的，就先要自己先付出一点了，然后在慢慢的软化，相信真心的付出，一定会得到回报的

china dining custom table manners the main difference between chinese and western eating habits is that unlike the west, where everyone has their own plate of food, in china the dishes are placed on the table and everybody shares. if you are being treated by a chinese host, be prepared for a ton of food. chinese are very proud of their culture of cuisine and will do their best to show their hospitality. and sometimes the chinese host use their chopsticks to put food in your bowl or plate. this is a sign of politeness. the appropriate thing to do would be to eat the whatever-it-is and say how yummy it is. if you feel uncomfortable with this, you can just say a polite thank you and leave the food there. eating no-no's don't stick your chopsticks upright in the rice bowl.instead,lay them on your dish. the reason for this is that when somebody dies,the shrine to them contains a bowl of sand or rice with two sticks of incense stuck upright in it. so if you stick your chopsticks in the rice bowl, it looks like this shrine and is equivalent to wishing death upon a person at the table! make sure the spout of the teapot is not facing anyone. it is impolite to set the teapot down where the spout is facing towards somebody. the spout should always be directed to where nobody is sitting, usually just outward from the table. don't tap on your bowl with your chopsticks.beggars tap on their bowls, so this is not polite.also, when the food is coming too slow in a restarant, people will tap their bowls. if you are in someone's home,it is like insulting the cook. drinking gan bei! (cheers! “gan bei” literally means “dry [the] glass”) besides beer, the official chinese alcoholic beverage is bai jiu,high-proof chinese liquor made from assorted grains. there are varying degrees of bai jiu. the beijing favorite is called er guo tou, which is a whopping 56% alcohol. more expensive are maotai and wuliangye

从当时来看，你可以主动向她打招呼，表示你的热情。和他父母相处一定要周到恭敬，可以从对方的角度去思考。最重要是心平气和从实际出发，要避免可能引起的误会。遇到问题也不要猜疑，要耐心。如果是他父母真的不喜欢你，也不抱怨，靠你自己去把握感情。我说的不完善，你应从自己的实际情况出发

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